parenting
Tackling Peer Pressure
Submitted by admin on Sat, 03/29/2008 - 13:00.If you’re in your early teens you may already have encountered peer pressure … if you’re approaching your teens, it’s something you may face fairly soon. During the 26 years of conducting our SuperCamp academic summer camp programs we have learned quite a lot about the problems that teens face. Peer pressure is something that teens find very hard to deal with so we've come up with some suggestions.
Think about this scene: you’re on your way to a concert with a group of friends and someone pulls out a bottle taken from Dad’s liquor cabinet and starts passing it around. You don’t want to drink, but everyone else seems to be doing it and you don’t want to look like an outsider by refusing. What do you do?
How to Hire a Babysitter
Submitted by admin on Fri, 02/08/2008 - 19:47.Hiring a babysitter often becomes essential at times, especially if you have to attend to an important task outside the house. However, many parents are not entirely comfortable with the idea of leaving their child in the hands of a complete stranger. It is important that the babysitter you hire should be capable enough of handling different possible situations in your absence.
Here are some tips you should keep in mind before hiring a babysitter:
• Avoid hiring babysitters younger than thirteen years of age. Young children typically require older babysitters, who tend to have more experience and maturity in handling infants.
• Hire babysitters who are knowledgeable about first aid and CPR.
• Always ask for and validate references. Check the experience of the babysitter. What age groups did the person work with? How much time?
Self-Esteem - 3 Parenting Tips for Increasing School Performance
Submitted by admin on Fri, 02/08/2008 - 19:46.Is your child's self-esteem spiraling downward because of grades? Do you feel helpless? Inside find out how being a detective can help you.
Self- Esteem and Childhood Wisdom:
A father asked his son, "How do you like going to school?" His son answered, "Going to school is fine. Coming home is fine too. It's just the time in between I don't like."
Parents, if your child feels this way, his grades are probably bad and his self-esteem is dropping like a runaway elevator. Here's a letter from a worried mom.
A Subscriber's Letter:
Dear Jean,
"My 9 year-old-son is in 4th grade and quickly falling behind. His teacher has made two calls to home telling us my son is having difficulty paying attention in class. His grades are HIDEOUS!!! I'm not sure what is going on. I don't think she is making school and learning fun, and I want to help him!!
We are on a limited income, so tutoring is going to be very difficult.
How To Prevent Aggression In Children
Submitted by admin on Sun, 10/14/2007 - 07:00.Aggression in children is behavior that results in personal injury to another. This injury can either be psychological (in the form of verbal attacks) or physical.
Usually the child tends to be impulsive, easily irritable, immature, inarticulate about feelings and has difficulty taking criticism or frustration.
The Reasons behind Aggression
There is a saying that children do not do things that we want them to do, they do things that we do. They learned behavior by observing others such as parents, siblings and peers. Thus we have to make sure that we set a good example for them to follow. Our behavior must be consistent; we must do what we preached to them.
How To Choose A Baby Monitor
Submitted by admin on Fri, 10/12/2007 - 07:48.With hundreds of different models, it’s hard to choose the right one. Factors such as your location and lifestyle will influence your decision. Do you need audio/video or audio only? 40 MHZ or 90 MHZ? Read on to find out.
The baby monitor is a wonderful invention that allows you to listen for your baby’s cries or movements without actually going into their room. Baby monitors are very useful when your baby wakes up in the middle of the night. You can hear his cries when he needs feeding or changing. Baby monitors are also very helpful during the day when your baby is napping. They give you the freedom to go on the opposite end of the house, hang out laundry, etc.
Causes of Bed Wetting: Eat, Drink, and Wet the Bed
Submitted by admin on Fri, 10/12/2007 - 07:46.Well, we're on a roll with causes of bed wetting theories. Here's one that seems to make sense. I'm still pretty much sold on the idea that it's a hereditary issue - but it seems like if there are other causes of bed wetting, they may be more controllable. If it's just heredity, you kind of have to wait it out until your child reaches the pre-set magical age of dryness. By nature not especially patient, the idea of waiting it out doesn't appeal to me.
So, here's what I've learned about the food and drink leading to bedwetting theory.
Parental Stress - Coping With Kids
Submitted by admin on Tue, 10/02/2007 - 07:00.Rearing well adjusted children is a real accomplishment on the part of any parent and with today's trend and lifestyle it is a hard task. Nowadays training kids begins at birth. There are lots of articles written on dealing with newborn babies or coping with toddlers, particularly for new moms, but surprisingly, there is little guidance on how to deal or cope with parental stress.
Several children under the age of five can be really troublesome and handling them is a tiring task. Parents really have to work hard as the kids at that age demand lot of time and attention. This really stresses the parent and makes them feel trapped. Parents have to be magically equipped with patience, parental love and mothering instinct.
Parenting Teens: Three Money Management Tips to Teach Our Teens
Submitted by admin on Mon, 10/01/2007 - 07:00.The more financial knowledge we can help our older teens acquire, the better their money management skills will be. From the basic knowledge, such as knowing how to write a check, to the more complex, such as being able to discern between good and not-so-hot credit card terms, our teens need to leave the nest prepared to use their financial knowledge as a useful tool in creating their life. Here are three points to make sure you cover with your teen:
#1. Understanding Financial Terms. A CD is more than just a way of listening to music. It's also a way to save money. Don't assume your teen knows exactly what different savings instruments are available to them or how they work. Knowing how a traditional savings account differs from a CD or exactly what a money market or mutual fund is, is information they need to know in order to eventually make wise decisions about where to place their money. Be sure they also know the difference between a bank, credit union and brokerage house, as well as between a US Treasury bill, note and bond.
Parenting Secrets: 9 Tips To Become A Good Parent
Submitted by admin on Sun, 09/30/2007 - 08:54.If you are a parent then you know how much happiness children can give you. But you also aware of the tough times and situations you had to go through when raising them. Parenting a child can be difficult. Even the most patient and careful parents can make mistakes. Here are 9 tips to help you become a good parent.
1. Love your children.
Alright I know you love your children but how do you show that love? Do you tell them everyday that you love them? Do you kiss them often? Do you hug them? Always tell your children how special they are. Tell them how much they mean to you and give them lots of hugs and kisses.
7 Tips for Raising Great People
Submitted by admin on Sun, 07/01/2007 - 07:00.Tip 1
Never treat children as inferiors. I’m often amazed at the attitude of people. Some people think that a child is only a half a person and cannot contribute anything until it has reached adulthood. I have learnt more about myself from my kids than any other person living on this earth. Just think how you feel when your boss, spouse, partner or colleague gives you the impression that they are cleverer, more experienced and better than you. Would you agree that it doesn’t feel like a good place to be in?
Tip 2
Don’t kill personalities by saying things like Oh you’ll never amount to anything with that attitude. If your parents said it to you it may be possible that you’re just repeating the same old stuff. This is not true. People can amount to anything they want to be. The only thing holding them back is a set of false beliefs. So refrain from programming them into believing they’ll never amount to being anything.
